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    Julie and Grant's story

    Whilst not all cases relating to the Property (Relationships) Act end up in court, there have been many relationship splits embittered by dividing up assets under the Act. Take the case of Julie and Grant.

    Grant is a fitness instructor and part time band member and Julie, who has a 19 year old daughter from a previous relationship, has a senior management position with an international company.

    1. When they married, Julie was the main income earner and owned her own home in a sought after Auckland suburb, while Grant on the other hand, had debts of approximately $35,000.

    Julie and Grant, both in their late forties, had been married for just over 8 years when Grant announced one day that he had met someone else and was leaving. Within 18 months of the break up, Grant left the relationship, debt free, with half the substantial profit from the sale of Julie’s home.

    Losing half your asset base is bad enough, but what compounded Julie’s loss was that her daughter had also lost half her future inheritance to Grant. Now, approaching her fifties, Julie was having to rebuild her equity.

    Hindsight is always easy but the first thought that comes to mind is, why didn’t Julie set up a trust to protect her home? Alternatively, she could have tried to contract out of the Property (Relationships) Act. The truth of the matter is that for most of us, a break up and asset splitting are not top of mind when we embark on a relationship.

    What can you do?

    The sad reality is that not all relationships last forever. It’s important to look at ways to protect your assets, to ensure you don’t end up in a vulnerable situation like Julie and her daughter in the above case.

    • Option One: Contracting out of the Property (Relationships) Act.

    In order to 'opt out' of the Act, you must be married or contemplating marriage, or be aware that you are in a de-facto relationship (within the meaning of the Act). Both parties must receive separate legal advice, and sign an agreement that stipulates the respective property rights that each partner will have in the event of a relationship breakdown.

    Many people, however, feel uncomfortable about asking their partner to sign an agreement of this nature, and like Julie, few of us when entering a relationship, consider the potential consequences of its breakdown.

    • Option Two: Establishing a Trust.

    A Trust on the other hand, can be set up by an individual prior to entering into a relationship.To gain the most protection, it is recommended a trust is established sooner rather than later,to allow for gifting. It is vital to ensure all the requirements relating to the establishment and ongoing management of the Trust are met. If a situation was to arise where the trust was challenged, it is extremely important to be able to show that the trust is genuine, ie: has been managed properly and not used as an alter-ego by the Settlor(s). Appointing an impartial Trustee Company like Perpetual Guardian can help in this area.

    It's quite likely that you, or someone you know, has experienced the effects of the Property (Relatoinships) Act in one way or another. Some quick facts to keep in mind are:

    1. Those in de-facto relationships are treated in the same way as those who marry or enter a civil union.
    2. The general rule is that after 3 years relationship property is separated 50/50 if the relationship ends, or one of the partners die.
    3. If there is a child of the relationship the 3 year period is generally reduced.
    4. All property is presumed relationship property at death, unless it can be proved otherwise.
    5. For a relationship to be considered de-facto, the courts consider the following factors (note: the relationship does not need to have any or all of the factors for the court to consider it de-facto):
      1. the duration of the relationship
      2. the nature & extent of common residence
      3. whether or not a sexual relationship exists
      4. the degree of financial dependence or interdependence and any arrangements for financial support, between the parties
      5. the ownership, use, and acquisition of property
      6. the degree of mutual commitment to a shared life
      7. the care and support of children
      8. the performance of household duties
      9. the reputation and public aspects of the relationship

    Some of the implications of the Property (Relationships) Act are:

    • Any inheritance that children (or other beneficiaries) receive under a Will can easily become relationship property. For example, an inheritance is left to a child who then pays off the mortgage, or purchases a home. Their spouse/partner lives in the home with them. If the relationship fails that partner may be entitled to a share of the home (which the child has put their inheritance into).
    • A couple does not necessarily need to live together to be in a de facto relationship.
    • An elderly couple living together for convenience runs the risk of being considered to be in a de-facto relationship, even though they are not in a sexual relationship.
    • For a couple with children; If one partner dies and the other remarries or enters a new relationship, the property that they have built up together could potentially become relationship property in the new relationship. If the new relationship fails, the new spouse or partner could take 50% and their children together would be disadvantaged.

    When 'alarm bells' should ring

    If any of the below apply to you, we highly recommend getting in touch with one of our experts.

    • Are you a single person with significant assets? (house/ investments/business/etc).
    • Are you concerned about your children's current or future partners?
    • Have you recently separated?
    • Are you in a relationship but do not live with your partner? (The Act can still apply)
    • Are you living with someone for convenience but do not consider to be in a relationship with that person?
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